Wednesday, 8 July 2015

Dance



When Life gives you Lemons, make lemonades and while you are making it dance and add some sugar. Sometimes our dreams and aspirations take time to materialise. Disappointments and setbacks are part and parcel of life, we just have to learn to deal with issues and situations and roll with the punches. So what if you messed up, you are only human. Forgive yourself and move on but refuse to give up.Life may not be the party we hoped for, but while we are here we should dance. We all fall sometimes but the most important lesson is learning to rise up again, refuse to stay down. Yes you have let a lot of people down, people who trusted you. You took advantage of some of them and misused your authority. Hiding away and cutting yourself off is not the answer.
Who knows why people do what they do.It is sad when people in authority and power abuse what they have been given. Do they think the truth will not come out, nothing is ever hidden. Abuse of power and authority ruins lives and destroys vulnerable people. 
To all those who have been hurt by people they trusted, all I can say is take heart and learn to trust again but don't forget the lesson learned. People will always hurt and disappoint us because they are human. To the Ladies especially, have some self respect and know that you are unique and valuable.  To those in authority don't forget to treat others the way you like to be treated. We should  all  listen to each other and know that other people are valuable, Just saying.