People either say they are in love or that they love their partners, yet they treat them badly. Why would anyone with dignity or self-respect remain in an abusive relationship?

Relationships are meant to be beautiful, good, sweet, lovely and everything you want it to be and more as well as being hard work and sometimes challenging .

One thing I know for sure is that no matter how good or bad, it is never worth dying for if you ask me.

I believe in love, don't get me wrong, but when the love is twisted and causing you so much pain, unhappiness, drama and trauma, then it is time to end it.

Some people are just difficult to love, gender regardless. It is easy to love some people as well.

Certain folks make it their life's mission to push everything good that comes their way away. They self sabotage, then turn around and blame everyone and everything but themselves. You should not deliberately put yourself in harm's way.

I saw a post by a lady recently and it read something like this: "he might beat me until I vomit blood but at least I have a man, unlike you hoes". Seriously, lady, you don't have a man, you have a monster.

What on earth will possess someone to make a statement like that? Is it self-loathing or low self-esteem? Seriously, I don't get it. Why would  anyone with their senses intact remain in a place that is dangerous and harmful to their well-being? What is it? Is it fear? Or are you that broken that you cannot see anymore? Is the sex that good? People have been killed for refusing to get out of abusive relationships.

No one should remain in an abusive relationship, be it  physical, emotional, financial, verbal or sexual. Abuse is abuse, period. Don't just walk away. RUN away.

Believe, ladies and gentlemen, that the universe has something better for you. If you believe you deserve better, the best will come.

Just saying