Cut the Cord

While we are commanded to love all men, you must be guided with the understanding that you are not designed to fit into everyone. - Stanley Jonas.

I got that quote from a  good friend of mine and it got me thinking about a certain Lady I called a friend.
Be around people who bring out the best in you. Have you been around people Who constantly want to pull or bring you down.
They seem to bring the worst out of you and when that happens you don't even recognise yourself.

I know you guys  don't know anyone like that right.
Looking back I wonder why I put up with her.  Tolerance? Maybe,When I figure out why I will let you know.

These people can never be happy for or with you, however they pretend to,but you can tell.
If you allow them they will destroy your zest for life. They have a way of sucking all your energy.
They always cause strife ,thinking they can diminish your confidence.
Their presence  alone seem to stir up conflict.

In our journey in life  I believe some people can become a burden or dead weight.
How do you cut them of without being mean ?
Tell me ,how do you determine when to end the relationship,whether it is with a spouse,a friend ,your sister or brother.

💞I know you are suppose to forgive those who hurt you and abuse you.
But where Do you draw the line?

As for me I strongly believe that you should love some people from a distance.
I am all for loyalty and supporting each other, but there comes a time when you have to let some relationships go.
I am just saying cut the cord that binds you to them, enjoy yourself in this journey called Life.
Surround yourself with people who will bring the best in you,  people that encourage ,motivate, and inspire you,people who make you want to become a better you.
Just Saying.